星期日, 4月 06, 2008

羈絆

尋日去書局買左三本書,當中有兩本係九把刀的愛情小說
"月老" 同 "那些年,我們一起追的女孩"

"月老" 呢本書我已經睇左ebook好耐,上次去台灣時行書局見到時已經好想買,結果今次就買左
(一本touching的書真係要實實在在的拿在手睇多次..)

而 "那些年,我們一起追的女孩" 就反而睇左九把刀的三少田壯集"慢慢來,比較快"中先知道有呢本小說
今日睇完,相信有經歷過青春的人一定會有共鳴

當中的一個詞令人難已釋懷 ... 羈絆

p.s. 九把刀當真利害,寫小說的種類之多比倪老還要多

49 則留言:

cam~i 說...

本想搵一些去台灣的資料,因而偶然去到你的blog. 會唔會有一些去台灣的點滴可以分享?

Kenny Ho 說...

當然可以啦﹐妳打算去邊 ?
我上次一個人去就去左台北

cam~i 說...

同屋企人去,4-5天行程,打算8/5出發,但未plan行程。想問邊間旅行社訂package較好/化算?

Kenny Ho 說...

其實間間都差唔多, 反而可以留意下酒店近唔近捷運站。近的話方便好多架 :)
4-5日可以考慮第一晚去新北投享受一下溫泉酒店,我凍天去時真係好relax!

cam~i 說...

thx for your advice! my trip may cancel or postpone la......btw, I watch DVD of Eason's concert again which reminds me many wonderful moments that night. Have u watched his concert past year? I find it's fantastic & he really performs well.

Kenny Ho 說...

Why your Taiwan trip will postpone?

i didn't watch it yet, i knew his concert was very cool! seems I need to watch it :D

instead his concert is in my mp3 list recently :)

cam~i 說...

oh, coz my sister can't arrange to be off in early May. So just leave the plan aside, sometimes, timing can't be perfectly matched. when u r free but your fd r not. I find quite difficult to get a companion for a trip.

I strongly recommend u to watch his show with funny dancing performance.

btw, do u know who's Tanya Choi? I love her songs named "beautiful love" & "day & night". I love the melody much. So do u have any lovely songs that u always listen to?

Kenny Ho 說...

hum, lovely songs, many Eason mandarin songs, like
想哭
兄妹
我們都寂寞

all are very touching..

btw, 2 of my favorite songs are posted in my blog!
take a look of my 歌曲歌詞 posts.. :)

Kenny Ho 說...

almost missed..
Eason's 當這地球沒有花 is one the I love most!

cam~i 說...

listen to your recommended songs, really touching! seems u r quite sentimental, songs r most likely sad songs, aren't u?

Today is really hot, actually I'm off in pm session, but finally no place to go but back home early. Maybe this is the character of being a "cancer" horoscope...used to stay at home, rather emotional & sensitive. R u the same?

I gonna share more daily / tiny issues on your blog, if u don't mind:D

Kenny Ho 說...

Well sad songs are always touching.

haha, you guess right, i'm a sensitive "cancer", instead won't let others realise any emotional things... even more classic "cancer" :P

it's so coincidence that you're "cancer" too! :D

I'd like to stay home too, but recently not really willing to go back home...as I know i have to work once I arrive home...too busy..

So great that you have half day leave, can take a good rest :)

Welcome to share everything here!

cam~i 說...

busy? busy for work / study / anything else? do u need to OT often?

for me, too much workload in previuos job, no personal life until I find my present job.... rather free, can leave sharp at 6. But gradually find hard to kill time when u have too many....and feel life seems too routine & meaningless. Am I too contradictory?!

Kenny Ho 說...

busy for work and study
coz have to work at home...and do homework and study for my master course, and yes, i have to OT always :(

I was so free in my previous job which is a shift work. Really not muc h to do and nothing to learn.
So I changed to my present job, but now really busy ~~
Just Opposite to you :)

So how you spend your leisure time?

cam~i 說...

Ha, really a good question. To be honest, this is what I always ask myself & think of anything to do in order to escape from boring life. Always stay at home, listening to music & browse through websites all the time. Boring, isn't it? :)

I'm sure if I fall in love, then even more time won't be enough. But unluckily, still remain single. 見對方己經找到新的戀情,也希望自己可以一樣。但原來唔可能勉強,寧願自己一個。(可能時間實在太多啦,常常胡思亂想,多愁善感都係我的寫照黎架:p)

p.s. 好奇地問:「你4:53am仍上網還未睡/已睡醒?」

Kenny Ho 說...

Not boring, instead I'd rather stay at home than go out and walk...really don't know where to go / do, and feel more comfortable at home.

ya, "in love" is an important issue for "cancer", especially..well, I get many feeling / emotions towards my girl.
but poor me that not don't know how to express it much.. afraid of telling others my feeling.
Still remain single, in fact pretenting enjoy it, but dare to have my right girl behind. Well, 口不對心

胡思亂想,多愁善感 is talking about me as well! :P

4:53am...I slept at 12 and woke up at 4:00am as I'm still doing my homework...which the deadline is tomorrow....
don't know I can sleep tonight or not!

cam~i 說...

so have u approach her already & did she know your feeling? I have come across this situation b4...I think he will know he is special for me than others, but come out only a misunderstanding. So act right now & don't think too much, friend!!

Glad to share your views. Hurry to leave home & work. Longing to your reply ^_*

Kenny Ho 說...

ai she has bf...so it's not a good timing for me.
now is staying behind, waiting for opportunity .. or give up.
It's not a good move to express myself in this way.
How about you? any guy makes you feel special now?

Thanks for your reply at such early time!
You have to work on Sat.?
Cheers my friend :)

cam~i 說...

not every Sat, but work on alternate Sats. Raining whole day, full of mess & nearly fully "wet" after back to office. So working on Sat s/b totally "wrong" & abolished.

Um....once had a "guy" make me feel nervious & excited. But now become a "past tense". He has just started a new relationship with another girl, my previous colleague. I confess that I haven't given him a clear signal which cause us to misunderstand each other...(coz he has once disclosed to my frd that he don't know what I feel) So forget him & don't intend to wait for him any more which may turn out to get "nothing" / waste time.

So r most of your frds single/ with bf/gf?

Kenny Ho 說...

you and me make same mistake...afraid to express feeling.
forget is good to you, prepare yourself for a new start~ ;)

my friends, well, some of them are remains single, some with bf/gf and some get married in these 2 years.

cam~i 說...

Ha...just b4 I go to bed, see your note, appreciate for your prompt reply:)

actually, get ready for a new relationship....however, deep inside, still wait for him....until finally confirm he no longer be "single". So I know it's time for me to "wake up".

I meet another guy several times in these 2 weeks but can't feel any "chemical reaction" between us. 深深體會到勉強冇幸福. So just enjoy myself alone & understand "many things" can't be under our control. So this is why so call "life".

Yup, some frd always married & even get a baby. Seems they already go upstairs to another stage which I find myself still remain unchange & haven't grow up indeed. Haha......mutter again

Kenny Ho 說...

haha, you're too welcome :)

Let's follow your feeling (I think we're same kind). Need not force yourself to adopt anything. Life will let you have it at a right time ~

I sure understand how important of "chemical reaction", or I would say a "magic moment". I met my friend several times recently but still no trigger point...She's not my cup of tea.

Everyone has different time schedule, so take your time ;)

welcome to mutter here and let me share with you :D

cam~i 說...

totally agree with u, so just feel ease & enjoy our single life!!

btw, my mom's birthday is coming & our family gonna have buffet. Do u have any recommendation?

Kenny Ho 說...

yes, enjoy what we have now :)

which location you prefer?

cam~i 說...

Uhm, actually no preference, both Kln side / Hong Kong district is okay as we gonna have it in weekend. Any buffet is good & not so costly? Our budget is around $250/head.

Btw, I don't like buffet much coz it is unavoidabe to eat more & make me feel sick afterwards. But as we always have chinese dishes in family gathering, our sisters want to have some difference this time.

Kenny Ho 說...

let's check it out to see any good choices~

I like to have buffet, was eaten too much before until too full, but now knowing how to limit myself and focus on what I like :P

anyway now I won't eat that much as I eat less and less. Just have half dishes of lunch. Already getting fat -.-

Kenny Ho 說...

these 3 seems quite good~~

http://www.openrice.com/restaurant/sr2.htm?shopid=921
http://www.openrice.com/restaurant/sr2.htm?shopid=2859
http://www.openrice.com/restaurant/sr2.htm?shopid=3596

Hope it is useful to you.

I usually search in openrice and can get many good ideas :)

cam~i 說...

thanks much :)

that 3 choices sound good, with acceptable price & many varieties of desserts....my favourite:P

I search in openrice too whenever I can't think of any place to go...

do u try 阿拉麵館 before? I like to go there often....

but I try Spaghetti House last Friday? My comment is just 1 word, "salty"...all dishes including lobster soup, rice & pizza......>.<

Kenny Ho 說...

take some photos to let me know how tasty the desserts are :D

I didn't try 阿拉麵館 before, seems it's worth me to give a try!

you had a "salty" dinner, and I just had a "healthy" lunch today.
I had a 燒味飯 today, and it's too healthy....seems the cook didn't put salt to it -.-

(I am still in office when reply this notes)

cam~i 說...

Hope u have finished your work & leave home at the time I make this note.

Do u need to OT often? I have once experienced to OT overnight but already long time ago......in my 1st job.

it's rare to taste a poor 燒味飯 coz 燒味 gonna be 最惹味.

Tonight I went to Kln. Bay to have my 1st lesson Bowling course (don't feel too surprised:) & in fact, there are many restaurants, I find 板長壽司 is nearby too. So I can have many choices for dinner after lesson in coming several weeks. :)

Kenny Ho 說...

I am still in office again, seems that I'm still have a long run tonight..

Yes OT often, coz need time to adopt my new position. I didn't try OT overnight before, hopefully need not doing it in the future!

So how's your Bowling course? any one accompany with you? KowloonBay is a good place there many kind of restaurants there! :D

cam~i 說...

Sigh....I can just say "add oil" & u can get a rest soon... as Tmr is Happy Friday.

The course takes 1 hour per lesson, 6:30-7:30pm. In the 1st lesson, teacher demonstrated how to make a beautiful posture when throwing ball. My colleague go with me.....altogether round 11 ppl, practise in 3 lanes.

I take another course tmr.....make a guess! :P relate to music but no equipment is needed......

tell u more tmr

Kenny Ho 說...

thanks, just arrived home... too busy week.

It's so great that you can have leisure time to attend courses. So after few lessons I expect you'll show me a beautiful posture with full bingo! :P

hum...relate to music but no equipment...is that vocal course?

cam~i 說...

Bingo! Singing course. You know, including me, 66 ppl in my class....big class....can't imagine, isn't it? Wide range of classmates, from teenagers to retired ppl.

Again go with my colleague. We keeps on "牙阿鴉亞牙" & "do ri me fa so la ti do" throughout the lesson:P

OT again tonight? Perhaps I can also show u the singing technique in the future:P

Kenny Ho 說...

wow, 66 ppl! so crowded and I am thinking how large of the lecture room!

I am waiting to see you show me a good posture with a great singing technique :P

and yes I'm still in office, coz working on a new client transaction that still have works to do.

BTW did I mention what's my job nature? I'm an IT man.

cam~i 說...

Um....really a difficult task to sing well & play bowling with good posture at the same time....haha...
just imagine how funny / how "strange" it will be:P

First of all, don't be mad at me.....to be honest, in my impression, IT department (at least in my office) seems rather free & not much work to do.

Unfortunate that our office block linking to msn / blog....otherwises, we can keep chatting / share views more often:D

I gonna practise more on my bowling posture to perform for u....goodnight!:D

Kenny Ho 說...

Well IT job can be that free...when works in-house. As I'm working in an outsourcing company, I have many clients on hand to serve.. :P

We can chat in MSN other time, not necessary at office hour, I can't open MSN at that time anyway..
add me here (kennyhlk@msn.com)

Practice more to surprise me! :D

cam~i 說...

Today wake up early & watch a film "mad detective (神探)".....

Story is special from ordinary detective film. Just finished & now go out to have "dim sum" with my mum. (The habit we usually have on Sat^_^)

It's long time I haven't gone out to see a movie. U? which type of film u like most? Action/comedy.......??

Btw, just curious, when did u leave office yesterday night?

Kenny Ho 說...

"Mad detective" should be a very good movie that is on my to-see list :P

it's good that you have "dim sum" with your mum, seems you have good relationships with your family :)

I haven't gone out for a movie for long time as well...hum...i even can't remember what was the last one.
Sometimes i watched myself after I had lesson on Sat afternoon in UST, it's quite cool that I can bought a ticket of a hot movie for just 15 mins before the start!

hum, no definite type, action and comedy are favorites, and love story as well ~~

well I left office at 01:40...in morning already -.-

So what will you do tmr?

cam~i 說...

U take a master course in UST, right? Information system? Half day / full day lesson on Sat? it s/b exhausting.

For me, I had a BBA degree & I also want to have a Master too.....but can't think of anthing to study. Never consider MBA....it caters to ppl in upper managerial level in order to broaden social networks & it's really costly indeed.

I never see movies alone. If no companion, just gonna wait for DVD. "Tokyo Tower" is also another good movie that I recently watch.

Well, I used to get up early in weekends. Don't like crowded place....so prefer stay at home....sometimes, like to watch "週末影院" in the afternoon. TVB loves showing 周星星's movies. Sill enjoy them even watching many times. :P

How about u? busy studying in weekend?

Kenny Ho 說...

yes, Master of Information System Management. courses are on Sat. morning, afternoon and evening. Usually I take 2 of it. This semester I only have morning class.

you're BBA graduated, then you still wanna study business things or any other else?
MBA...it's too tough for me now and right, costly!

I feel horrible lonely when watching movie alone sometimes. But somehow some movie need to watch in cinema. Of course watch with someone is more lovely :P

"Tokyo Tower" is a touching movie, I read some comments to it. I would properly watch it if I was in dated.

ha, I like 周星星's movies as well, spent a whole afternoon to watch TVB or CableTV for such old but happy movies :)

Today is a tired day. I woke up early to bring my cub scouts a competition. After that fall asleep for an afternoon, too tired -.-

cam~i 說...

Competition of foot drill? I was once a member of Civil Aid Service when studying in University. Learn first aid, foot drill, 繩結....also how to "polish" the boots "sharply". Unforgettable moment at that time!!:P

Studying integrated business courses & concentrated more on finance field, I find BBA degree tend to be more theoretical basis, not practical enough. So I gonna study other subject, but can't think of anthing else....really feel headache!!


Just taste a blueberry cheese cake...Yummy Yummy!!
Desserts really have the kind of "magic" that make u get full of energy so as to face next day challenge...Do u love it? But I know not much boys love desserts except 1 of of my male friends love it much, he can eat half of cheesecake in buffet time. Incredible, isn't it?

p.s. I remember u note U read "月老", touching story, isn't it? where can I find the e book verson?

Kenny Ho 說...

Just check before I slept and glad to see your note.

Not foot drill, coz cub scout need not being trained that hard. Just kind of skill testing :)

hum, I agree, even my master course is quite theoretical. Need more digestion before I can really use those things in a practical way.
So do you do any research on what master course? UST is a good choice :D

haha, I like cheese cake, but not all desserts. Girls always like sweet sweet dessert. and don't eat too much, "magic" re-charge you and your weight as well :P

Yes, the ebook is ready, drop me an email or MSN me to have it?

read 月老 first, then read "那些年,我們一起追的女孩"

Cheers

cam~i 說...

thanks in advance *_^

Share some office affairs with u 1st:-
Today really a challenging day. One of my female colleagues receive a cracy client's call....full of foul language & insist to hold on the phone for my manager's reply. Really come to a deadlock. Meanwhile, "White Knight" come (that's my male colleague, actually, same grade & no obligation to handle this case) He voluntarily suggested to give a help, answer the phone.

We all admire him much. A good man & a good dad indeed. :)

Do u need to meet client face-to-face? My job nature is not so attractive but can leave office sharp at 5:45. That's my favourite:P

Kenny Ho 說...

Mr. White Knight is so brilliant! You know there is not much such good man in company now.

Your job is to answer client call in? If yes it is a very tough job!
Let me guess...you work in Kowloon Bay?

I need to meet client face-to-face, I needed to work in client office at least half of my working hours before. After promoted I stay in office more and still need to talk with clients on phone, or have meeting with them.

cam~i 說...

Ha....U've got a detective mind *_^

I have adm work before. But too much workload & pressure, so switch to Customer Service position afterwards. Actually I never think of myself doing such kind of job. I'm not the kind of person having high EQ & talkative...I will feel uncomfortable & even redden when talking in a mass. But I gonna work there for nearly 3 years. Really incredible!

Well, I work in Kwun Tong. Tell u a "secret" but don't feel panic.:D
I find myself leaving my purse at home for 2 days but I don't even notice it. Another incredible act, isn't? Actually, 1 Octopus card & a staff badge are enough to me when come to work:P

How about u, any funny things happen in your daily life?

Kenny Ho 說...

haha, how come you don't realize that you had no purse for 2 days? so you put your Octopus with your staff badge together that you still can pay for traveling or food? :P

Kwun Tong, oh my guess is quite near already~~ I work in Central, very expensive to have lunch there!

funny things..hum not really, coz quite tension during office hour. You know, IT is always the one who being blamed... :(

How's your holiday tomorrow? too bad that I still have to work tomorrow, as I have a presentation waiting for me to finish..

cam~i 說...

Yup, my company pay me free meal in staff canteen, so I just make sure my Octopus & staff badge come along with me is OK.

Actually, losing staff badge is more inconvenient than purse. There is a complicated procedure: I need to pay $100 deposit to HR before 9am & get a temporary badge for lunch. Be sure return badge to HR next morning, otherwise, no refund.

I seldom go to Kwun Tong before I start to work there. Seems rather old & full of low-income ppl. But having lunch set is abnormally expensive too. Even food court in APM costs u more than $50. >.<

Yesterday my frd & I have dinner in a restaurant called "ME-N-U" in Kln. Bay after lesson. As both of us don't eat too much, we ordered "墨魚石頭飯" & caesar salad. It likes fast food shop style but clean & quiet place. Do u like 墨魚飯? The dish is good especially in 百瀧 but beware don't have it when dating w/ someone:P

Well, I go to BBQ w/ colleagues on the roof of our office. Haha....can't escape from Kwun Tong even during holiday^_^

U still have to work in holiday? Your project seems never end. That's the "package" u "earn" in addition with increase salary & higher title after promotion, right? :D

p.s. I always come across funny thing in office but just can't describe to u 全神 in English coz my English is really poor~~ (seems saying too much this time)

Kenny Ho 說...

why don't have 墨魚飯 when date with someone? :P

today is a tired day as had 2 presentations from yesterday and this morning, then had a cubs scout assembly this afternoon...exhausted.

and my boss just sent me an email to warm me my desk isn't tidy enough...
So tomorrow is another working day.

Anyway I may go to watch Iconman tomorrow morning to relax!

How's your day?

cam~i 說...

Thanks for your note again.

Having 墨汁飯 needs extra care & be cautious not to make your mouth & teeth full of dark in colour. It gonna be very embarrassing ^_^

Woo.....another busy day, isn't it? But you have lesson for your Master Course in afternoon, so how can u attend cubs scout assembly?

For me, once again, after work, go to have Dim Sum with family. Btw, do you know there is a "bread machine" which can DIY bread ourselves. No technique & just put all ingredients into the machine & it's done! I look around different shops to see its function, brand & price.

Haha...your boss can't "tolerate" your desk? Let me help you tidy up your desk coz I have so many "free time" after work. ^_*

Iconman? I don't know this movie? Is it good & what is it about?